After coaching women for many years, I already suspected this, but this was a stark realization when you see just how few men you even find to be average looking. Ok Cupid reports that the most attractive women still receive 5X more email than average women and 28X more email than unattractive women.Literally 2/3 of male messages go to the best looking 1/3 of women.His wife, is overweight (more like obese) and very unattractive. Now, two years later, he falls head over heels in love & marries a woman who looks like Shrek.I'm okay, but I think back to the times that he would complain whenever a hair of mine was out of place, or if my outfit was not up to par before we went out..really scrutinized my appearance anytime I didn't look perfect. Because I was attractive, he was a lot harder on me..But he appears to be a lot more lenient on his wife's appearance.doesn't do anything to beautify herself. Hair is dissaray & the fat is bulging out of her clothes. I remember when he ridiculed me for gaining 15 lbs..told me I was getting fat. Oh well I've moved on but his behavior says a lot about men.He wants an ugly wife because they are insecure..want a pretty woman on the side for fun. Just had to get this off my chest Well, I looked on facebook to see that an ex of mine had gotten married. Once he confided in me that he didn't like how all his friends thought i was pretty. He even told me that it was one of the reasons he never brought me around his pals that often because he feared they would try to betray him by sleeping with me. lid=39428&page=leaguehome) TIME ELAPSED SINCE I QUIT SMOKING: Four months, four weeks, two days, 2 hours, 26 minutes and 21 seconds. Extra time with Drain Bead: 3 weeks, 3 hours, 0 minutes. The inevitable reaction would be a look that said "Um, you're saying that you're..." and I'd nod and give them a look that said, "Yes, yes I am." *sigh* Nothing like self-deprecation to make one feel good about oneself.... Originally posted by Audrey K Thankfully, my ex and I parted on good terms. I have been lucky enough not to have been dumped in my life, but if I ever am I hope the woman is drop dead gorgeous, with no brains.
Like in a normal bell curve, 5% of the women were found to be the least attractive and 5% were found to be the most attractive, with most women falling in the middle 90%.They're trained from a young age to be (often) unjustifiably self-assured, to eschew personality and affability for cocksure confidence, and to generally treat people like the feudal system is alive and kickin'. And because of this I think women tend to retain some memory of what it means to be liked (or disliked) for who one is, not how one looks. The bottom line: Ask any woman who she'd rather have as her boyfriend -- the lovably awkward Albert Brennaman (aka Kevin James -- told you he was the crux of the arugment) from ? Actually, what it can also say is that the ex is desperate for anyone and will go for the first thing they get. :p Originally posted by Lizard I personally have always been amused when I hear women talk about an ex and say "I saw his new gf, and she's UGLY! I can't imagine thinking that, much less saying that, about another girl. That way I could justify the whole thing in my mind by being disgusted with my ex's lack of valid priorities.I personally have always been amused when I hear women talk about an ex and say "I saw his new gf, and she's UGLY! My ex-girlfriends previous boyfrined was in my opinion ugly (he was pretty good on the stockton yardstick).